Let It Shine -When the Holidays Feel Heavy
Laura Longville
Thanksgiving and Christmas are often described as the most wonderful time of the year. But for many of us, it can also be complicated.
The lights may be glowing while something inside us feels dim. We may be grieving someone who is no longer at the table, adjusting to a changed relationship, carrying financial stress, or simply feeling exhausted by everything we think we should be doing.
If the holidays feel heavy this year, you do not need to pretend otherwise.
““The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” ”
God is not disappointed by your sadness. He does not ask you to push grief aside so you can manufacture Christmas cheer. He comes near—to the tired, the lonely, the disappointed, and the hurting. The story of Christmas reminds us that Jesus entered a world that was not neat, peaceful, or perfect. He brought light into the darkness, not because the darkness was imaginary, but because it was real.
This week, give yourself permission to release one expectation. Choose presence over perfection. Let the cookies come from the store. Say no to something that feels like too much. Ask someone you trust to sit with you. Light a candle and take a few quiet breaths as you remember: God is here with me.
You might also choose something small to wear or carry that catches the light—a necklace, bracelet, cross, or set of prayer beads. Let it become a simple reminder that even when you cannot see the whole way forward, God’s light has not left you.
You do not have to shine brightly every day. Sometimes letting the smallest light in is enough.
This Christmas, may we make room for what is true—and trust that Christ meets us there.